I survived another Valentine's Day. That is something. LOL. I had a good time with Dan. We ate enough that we were full and almost stuffed but I sent him home with a bunch of leftovers. I kept part of the roast for my leftovers along with a little bit of green beans. We both decided that if I make the little red potatoes again as well as the green bean recipe, it will be the ones I used this time. Do you know that I like best bout eating with Dan? It is what we have in common. We both aren't comfortable with eating in large crowds although we can eat out in restaurants (our favorites of course) because we have a little spacer in between tables etc. We both realize that if we ate at an SCA event we would be crowded and he admits that he would ha e to get up from the table after a bit to go outside and get some breathing room. He would use smoking as his excuse which is also the reason. At my place he knows I don't care how he is dressed. I don't care how the tablespace looks (that took a bit to get used to and realize) and it is nice to hear his critique of my cooking and what might be changed. It is good to hear what he would like to eat and he also contributes to it. After eating he goes outside to smoke a cigarette, which is why I have a chair on the porch but don't tell him that, which is fine. I know he needs space sometimes. Well enough getting lost in memories or whatever. He is a pix of dan sat our table (yeah, he doesn't dress up and neither do I) and a [ox pf what was on my plate. No dressing this year. No starchy bread just simple food that we both ate eating.
Life - the second half of a Century
This will be the place where I chat about my life. Most of the time it will be about my crafts like quilting or cross stitch but it will also be about my gaming and family life.
Sunday, February 15, 2026
The Day After...
Saturday, February 7, 2026
Valentine's Menu
I think that I have my Valentine's Day menu figured out Dan has decided he will come over so I quickly had to figure something up to feed him. LOL. It really wasn't that hard since he knew three things he wanted on the menu. He wanted Pork Roast, baby red potatoes and green beans with bacon. He even furnished the pork roast and the baby red pottos. That made it hard to say no to cooking them up, That being said, here is my menu:
My Valentine’s Day menu is 95% set which gives me a little bit lead way to account for Dan’s fluid awake time. We will have:
Roast pork
Baby Red Potatoes
Green Beans with Bacon
Gravy (of course)
Cornbread (still deciding)
Garlic Knots
Red Velvet Jelly Roll with Cool Whip on the side if we want it
Monday, January 19, 2026
word of the year
So this year, I am joining some people who are doing a thing where you try to live up to an ideal. There is a website that shows the words etc. So my word that I have is serenity. That's an interesting word. Each day I will try to write how serenity features in my day. Does that make sense? You know how bad I am in explaining things.
According to an internet search on the meaning of serenity:
"Sarenity" is a modern spelling variation of Serenity, meaning a state of being, calm, peaceful, and untroubled....It signifies a deep inner peace, a lack of agitation, or a calm environment, often sought through mediation or nature, and calm." \
In other words, the core meanings are calmness and peace, tranquility and composure.
All that is good and well but it isn't that easy which I guess is the reason why we need to work on it. The basic things that I need to work on, for various reasons, are crafting, SCA, budget, food, and friends. What are my plans to work on it?
Crafting: even if I don't do anything except wind bobbins or reorganize my floss, I need to keep crafting in the forefront of what I think on or work on. Why is this? It actually does make me feel better. I feel accomplished and don't get stressed as much when I see a stack of unfinished craft items. It is time to open my eyes and just work on it a little bit at a time.
SCA: This causes me stress for more than one reason. At our SCA Business Meeting on Sunday, some of the stress has backed off. Now there is movement again on what needs to get done for an event in October. It is still stressful but part of it is getting resolve.
Budget: What is there to say. I'm retired and on a limited budget. I survive and life isn't too bad. Dan has assured me that if, for some reason, I lose my housing here in Trumann (and no, I am not in danger of that) he would make sure I had a place to live even if I had to move in with him (he owns his house). While I appreciate it, neither one of us wants that to happen but it is nice to know it is one thing I don't have to worry about. Other budget things is just normal stuff. Slowly paying off credit cards, refrain from ordering more than what I can pay for, etc. On the good news is that I am slowly adding to my silver stack. I did have to cash some in to cover a bill but that is also why I have a small amount of silver. I will survive but it is still something I have to keep a close eye on.
Food: In today's society, Food is something that coms and goes. What is available at the store? What WILL be available at the stores? There is a lot to think about when you are a limited budget and don't always have access to a store that has somewhat decent variety. It isn't as bad as it sounds. Dan and Shalom makes sure that I get to Walmart or wherever O need to go to get groceries and meds.
Friends: Yes, I worry about my friends. That is a good thing as long as I don't over worry about them. Obviously Dan and Shalom are at the top of the list of friends that I worry about at times. I have others also. That is ok. It is also by worrying about them it tells me how good of a friend they are. You guys know which friends I am talking about and I will look sternly at you if you think I will EVER stop worrying about you. :)
All of that is enough to interrupt anybody's serenity. I have some plans though. I will take some more naps and light some candles and just relax. I also need to send a note to my brain to tell it to relax also. LOL.
That's it for my meandering today. It is time to take a nap, light a candle and relax for a bit. Hang in there everybody! Hugs to all.
Monday, January 12, 2026
Another Great Day...
Tuesday, December 30, 2025
YIPPEEE!!!!
Today was a good stitching day. Even though it was cold outside, I had a good day of napping under warm blankets. Then my mind finally decided hat it wanted to do. I pulled out my LeFleur blocks and am back to stitching on the two that need it. Once I finish stitching down the two blocks, I will put them up on the wall to make sure I get them right before sewing. I think I have to cut out some of the mini filler blocks on rows etc. We'll see. how it goes. I have an online stitching session on New Years Day but I have decided that I won't be doing the Mayhem Mystery Quilt. I will show up and do some hand sewing though..
The other thing I am working on is blackwork. Instead of working on 16 count or 14 count (per inch) I will be working on 11 count. I will be using 3 strands of blackwork. Right now I am starting on the border. The design I am using is a little different but I think I might like it in the long run. Working with 3 strands will be different but it seems to look nice so far on the 11 count, I'll let you now.
Monday, December 29, 2025
I had a great day!
Yes you read that right. I had a great day. It was a cold night and was still cold this morning but I was warm enough. Then Dan called and asked me if I wanted to go to Jonesboro with him. He had to do a bank run and one other stop. Of course he knew I would go with him since we had already talked about it. LOL. I had to pick up some meds at Walmart so we did that to. Even though it was a cold day, we both were nice and warm. Of course that could have ben because we were talking a lot of BS. LOL. Anyway, it was a fun day and nice to get outside with a friend. Even when he took the wrong turn on the way home after all these years and he had to figure out where to do a U-Turn to get back on the right side.
That is it. I felt it was only right to let you guys know that I had a good day and actually didn't have anything bad to report. That's not a bad way to end your day or eve your month or year. My brain is mush right now and I can't remember what else I was going to say so I'll sign off and go take a nap, I hope everybody has a great day and if I don't post again this year, have a safe holiday and I'll see you in 2026.
Wednesday, December 24, 2025
Merry Christmas
I know this is a little early but I know that you will forgive me for posting early. I haven't been working on anything but I did get some new Aida cloth in. It is 11 count. I haven't used that size before so we'll see how it goes.
I just wanted to say I hope you all have a Merry Christmas . Thank you all for reading my blog. It keeps me going and I hope that you might get some small enjoyment from reading it.
Sunday, December 21, 2025
Christmas from Dan
Hello my friends.
Dan just came back from his trip to see his friends and they gave him a lot of food so he split it with me. It will last me quite a bit. I was happy to see the Knorr sides because you can use them in a lot of recipes.
He also gave me am amber necklace for my SCA outfit. He loves amber so I am surprise when he gave it to me. I think it will look great on my outfit. This is a sneak peek.
The other cute pix I have is of Shalom. Shalom drives for Amazon (independent driver) and when he was picking up a car load of deliveries, the counter person said he looked cold. He said that he lost his winter hat and hasn't been able to replace it yet. So she gave him a hat to wear. He rolled his eyes and then said thank you and went on to do his deliveries. He showed me and grumbled but you know what? He has been wearing it every day. I think he secretly likes it.
Thursday, December 11, 2025
December 11, 2025
The year is almost over. Can yo believe it? How is everybody doing?
Hopefully this will post. My internet connection has been very spotty the last couple of days. That also shut down my mind. I have no energy now (ok, perhaps cold weather had something to do with that) and so far I haven't found where my energy went.
Did I tell you that Dan gave me a dryer for Christmas? He and Zak took it back because it wasn't working although it worked at the store. That meant they brought it back. Shalom had his electrician come out today to look at it. He says that Shalom needs to replace the fuse which he hopes to get to this week. It never is dull moment here.
I did something that I haven't done in ages. I bought a gam. It is called Shut the Box and it came in. It can be played with one person up to four people.
I have been having fun playing it. That also got me in the mood to play Yahtzee so I have also been playing that in my down time. By down time I actually mean by time that I didn't feel like anything else. That also has been a lot. LOL.
Thursday, November 27, 2025
Happy Thanksgiving
That's it. I just wanted to wish you all a safe and Happy Thanksgiving. I am thankful for all of you and wish you a safe and wonderful day.
Monday, November 24, 2025
Am I cleaning or just ignoring...
That is the true question. Am I cleaning or am I putting on blinders. I am tired of a sewing room where I can't easily find stuff. Soooo, this is my plan. I am going to just stuff everything smaller than a sewing machine into a plastic bag. I have plenty of Walmart plastic bags from grocery shopping so I am using them. NOW, those bags will be stuff with things that were on my table. Then once a day or at minimum once a week, I will take one bag and thoroughly go through it and put things where they belong. This will probably be like a year long project (or longer) but slow progress is better than no progress.
So another thing I worked on today was digging out my Christmas cards and started to address them. I have addressed around five. They will be sent out early December. I have others I will probably send out if I get a card from them. My card sending has whittled down so I won't have that much more to send out.
Now I have to work on Christmas presents for my SCA group. I think I might try to do something as a small medallion or ornament. I am thinking of a white background and I will stamp a black raven on the front. I might do a red leather blanket stitch around it to stitch it together. I might have to get more leather since I only have a minimal amount of red thread. The only problem is I am running out of time. I need to get around 10 done by December 7th. Wish me luck. :)
The Day After...
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