Sunday, February 15, 2026

The Day After...

      I survived another Valentine's Day.  That is something.  LOL.  I had a good time with Dan.  We ate enough that we were full and almost stuffed but I sent him home with a bunch of leftovers.  I kept part of the roast for my leftovers along with a little bit of green beans.  We both decided that if I make the little red potatoes again as well as the green bean recipe, it will be the ones I used this time.  Do you know that I like best bout eating with Dan?  It is what we have in common.  We both aren't comfortable with eating in large crowds although we can eat out in restaurants (our favorites of course) because we have a little spacer in between tables etc.  We both realize that if we ate at an SCA event we would be crowded and he admits that he would ha e to get up from the table after a bit to go outside and get some breathing room.  He would use smoking as his excuse which is also the reason.  At my place he knows I don't care how he is dressed.  I don't care how the tablespace looks (that took a bit to get used to and realize) and it is nice to hear his critique of my cooking and what might be changed.  It is good to hear what he would like to eat and he also contributes to it.  After eating he goes outside to smoke a cigarette, which is why I have a chair on the porch but don't tell him that, which is fine.  I know he needs space sometimes.   Well enough getting lost in memories or whatever.  He is a pix of dan sat our table (yeah, he doesn't dress up and neither do I)  and a [ox pf what was on my plate.  No dressing this year.  No starchy bread just simple food that we both ate eating.




     Now to get on to crafting again...after getting caught up on dishes...and one of the projects is putting the ravens on the black fabric for the upcoming SCA event this year.  I need to do around 12 of them s I am taking my time.    I will show a pix eventually but my job in this is to get the applique sections  ready to put on the tabards.  I will not be making the tabards but if I get this done ahead of time, it might inspire the group to get the tabards made.

     In t he meantime, I have been enjoying going through my cookbook of Medieval recipes.  I made one of them which would be translated as a pork pie.  I used 2 pork chops in it and it turned out good.




I will be making another recipe soon.


     Another recipe that I will be making soon will be.



     I guess the only other thing that I have to report on is my Blackwork.  I am happy to announce that now that I have changed to 11 count canvas, which is much easier to work with.  I am all caught up.  Here is m progress picture..



     Oops.  I just noticed that I missed posting a pix of my midnight star project..  I guess that pix will have to wait until another time.  I will stitch down the stars first but then it was suggested that I use beads or something on each point in the stars to highlight them a bit more.  I am still thinking on that one.  Anyway, I hope you all had a good Valentine's Day. 

Love ya all.









Saturday, February 7, 2026

Valentine's Menu

I think that I have my Valentine's Day menu figured out  Dan has decided he will come over so I quickly had to figure something up to feed him.  LOL.  It really wasn't that hard since he knew three things he wanted on the menu.  He wanted Pork Roast, baby red potatoes and green beans with bacon.  He even furnished the pork roast and the baby red pottos.  That made it hard to say no to cooking them up,  That being said, here is my menu:



My Valentine’s Day menu is 95% set which gives me a little bit lead way to account for Dan’s fluid awake time. We will have:

Roast pork

Baby Red Potatoes

Green Beans with Bacon

Gravy (of course)

Cornbread (still deciding)

Garlic Knots

Red Velvet Jelly Roll with Cool Whip on the side if we want it

What do you think?

Monday, January 19, 2026

word of the year

      So this year, I am joining some people who are doing a thing where you try to live up to an ideal.  There is a website that shows the words etc.  So my word that I have is serenity.  That's an interesting word.  Each day I will try to write how serenity features in my day.  Does that make sense?  You know how bad I am in explaining things.

     According to an internet search on the meaning of serenity:

             "Sarenity" is a modern spelling variation of Serenity, meaning a state of being, calm, peaceful, and untroubled....It signifies a deep inner peace, a lack of agitation, or a calm environment, often sought through mediation or nature, and calm."   \

     In other words, the core meanings  are calmness and peace, tranquility and composure.

     All that is good and well but it isn't that easy which I guess is the reason why we need to work on it.  The basic things that I need to work on, for various reasons, are crafting, SCA, budget, food, and friends.  What are my plans to work on it?

     Crafting:  even if I don't do anything except wind bobbins or reorganize my floss, I need to keep crafting in the forefront of what I think on or work on.  Why is this?  It actually does make me feel better.  I feel accomplished and don't get stressed as much when I see a stack of unfinished craft items.  It is time to open my eyes and just work on it a little bit at a time.

     SCA:  This causes me stress for more than one reason.   At our SCA Business Meeting on Sunday, some of the stress has backed off.  Now there is movement again on what needs to get done for an event in October.  It is still stressful but part of it is getting  resolve.

     Budget:  What is there to say.  I'm retired and on a limited budget.  I survive and life isn't too bad.  Dan has assured me that if, for some reason, I lose my housing here in Trumann (and no, I am not in danger of that) he would make sure I had a place to live even if I had to move in with him (he owns his house).  While I appreciate it, neither one of us wants that to happen but it is nice to know it is one thing I don't have to worry about.  Other budget things is just normal stuff.  Slowly paying off credit cards, refrain from ordering more than what I can pay for, etc.  On the good news is that I am slowly adding to my silver stack.  I did have to cash some in to cover a bill but that is also why I have a small amount of silver.  I will survive but it is still something I have to keep a close eye on.

     Food: In today's society, Food is something that coms and goes.  What is available at the store?  What WILL be available at the stores? There is a lot to think about when you are a limited budget and don't always have access to a store that has somewhat decent variety.  It isn't as bad as it sounds.  Dan and Shalom makes sure that I get to Walmart or wherever O need to go to get groceries and meds.

     Friends:  Yes, I worry about my friends.  That is a good thing as long as I don't over worry about them.  Obviously Dan and Shalom are at the top of the list of friends that I worry about at times.  I have others also.  That is ok.  It is also by worrying about them it tells me how good of a friend they are.  You guys know which friends I am talking about and I will look sternly at you if you think I will EVER stop worrying about you.  :)

     All of that is enough to interrupt anybody's serenity.  I have some plans though.  I will take some more naps and light some candles  and just relax.  I also need to send a note to my brain to tell it to relax also.  LOL.

     That's it for my meandering today.  It is time to take a nap, light a candle and relax for a bit.  Hang in there everybody!  Hugs to all.


Monday, January 12, 2026

Another Great Day...


   I had another great day.  Dan picked me up and we made our way to Jonesboro and to the  coin shop.  That didn't work out, however, since they weren't back yet from the coin show out of state.  We will try that again.  I'm going along to keep Dan company.  This is not my time to buy some silver.  I have to wait until I get my water bill and electric bill which are my highest bills.  

   Since we couldn't go the the silver shop, we went to the bank instead so I could get some deposits done for our SCA group.   

   Our next stop was Hobby Lobby  which was both exhausting and fun.  I  was glad that Dan was with me because he was handy figuring out how much fabric I would need for some SCA projects.  It was fun and funny.  He would hold up the bolt of fabric against his chest and see how much I needed.  Then we had to walk ALL the way across the store to get some other things.  That was ok.  it was so much fun being able to use some gift cards I received for Christmas!  The best pat is that Dan paid for some of the fabric which meant that I still have $12 left on one of the gift cards.  :)  I would take a pix for white fabric isn't that exciting. We were working up our appetite and off to Kandala's we went. 
   
 I think it was one of our best meals there.


What was NOT to love?  Chicken on the bottom, steak on top of that and on top of the steak was shrimp.  It was so good we ate the plate (he ordered the same thing) without having the tortillas or eating up all the chips and salsa!  The seasoning  was perfect and we will make sure to order it again.
  
    The good things weren't done yet.  When my mail came, it had my patterns from Bird Brain Designs!  I haven't decided what color I will do them in but I have plenty of time.  Here is what came.


I have plenty to work on now.  I just need to have the weather and my hands cooperate!  LOL.

I hope you all have a great day/night.  I hope you all have a great day/evening.

The Day After...

      I survived another Valentine's Day.  That is something.  LOL.  I had a good time with Dan.  We ate enough that we were full and al...